Monday, November 9, 2009

If you gotta nest....

Vintage Broke-Ass Stuart. Ha! If You Gotta Nest, Get Inspiration for FREE

I have a secret obsession.

Some people collect boxes and boxes of vintage G.I.Joe figurines. Others watch sexy Nigella cook her food on TV religiously. And some people walk around in Yankees Flannel PJs everyday during post season (my landlord).

My obsession may seem fairly benign, even mundane – at first. But it is something I have hidden away for years from roommates, friends, boyfriends… In fact it goes against everything I try to project upon first meetings. I like people to see me as a carefree, go with the flow, independently minded, world traveler type. Someone who’d be fun at any hour of the day. Someone who you’d want to take with you up and decided to go to Thailand or Budapest tomorrow. I even lie to myself. I used to boast that I could fit everything I loved and needed in one backpack, and travel through the world making a home wherever I happened to lay my head. WRONG. And I’m finally facing it: I am a “nester.”

My discovery of the full range of my home-making obsession came as a bit of a shock to me as I’m not the Suzy-Housewife-Nurturing-Cooking-and-Cleaning-Type. I’ve also realized, however, that after living in 7 different apartments in my 8 years in New York - each with their own different feel, architecture, and neighborhood – and all on an artist’s budget - I’ve also discovered some interesting online resources for home decorating and design inspiration. And so for Broke-Ass Nesters everywhere – this is for you!

My favorite design/decorating blog is:
Design Sponge with amazing examples of DIY befores and afters of rooms, furniture, etc.

I also can get completely lost in these fantastic blogs:
Swiss-Miss
Paper n Stitch
Innumerable Goods
Little Green Notebook
Abbey Goes Design Scouting
All Over Print
An Indian Summer
Automatism
Grijs
Mme Herve
Oh Joy!
Style Court
Urban Sardines
We Love You So
Today I Saw

(p.s. I’m going to assume that by now, most of the guys have decided to look at some other Broke-Ass Writer’s post, given the estrogen dripping nuances of this article. But if you are a fellow and still sticking with me, I just want you to know that I find you very, VERY SEXY.)

My obsession was discovered about a year and a half ago by my roommate, Nadia. She walked into my room while I was organizing pages upon pages of magazine clippings, computer print outs, drawings, color swatches, feathers, ribbons, photos, and lists. I had an opened Domino (before it was discontinued *sob*) in one hand and was ripping out all the parts I had marked upon my first perusal. “Do you always do this?” she asked, more with a tone of awe and wonderment, than judgment. “Yes,” I sheepishly grinned. And my secret was out! But not out in a big way. Just in a – oh, that’s cool, she likes decorating – type of way.

Well, when my boyfriend Carlo and I moved in together last winter, he was in for a bit of a shock. Every couple has their “thing” that they might always have to deal with. For Carlo and I, it’s IKEA. Let’s just stay that aside from the $1.99 dish of pasta with red sauce, the trip was a total and utter disaster. We left not speaking to each other, without the bookshelves we had set out to get in the first place, and with a lot of other (inexpensive, but totally unnecessary) tchotchkes that he resented having to lug around. (And I couldn’t understand why he didn’t have the BEST TIME EVER!) That IKEA trip made me realize that I have a lot more than just a “little thing for decorating.” I am obsessed with discussing, planning, painting, rearranging, adding, and subtracting to our home. Carlo’s a good sport, and I’ve learned that sometimes “No means No.” (We don’t have the full size vintage cow’s hide rug and matching stools I found on Ebay, yet.)

My favorite thing about “nesting” is that no two places are the same, and the feel of the place pretty much dictates what I start to fill it with. It’s like uncovering a secret, or unlocking a language, when you figure out how the room wants to be decorated. I hope you get as much pleasure and thrills (YES, thrills!) scrolling through the above list of online mines of color, structure, and creativity as I do! And I promise, boys, next week I’ll be writing something a little more gender-neutral in flavor.

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Things I Love Today













Dia de los Muertos

Hey folks! I wanted to post my article from Broke-Ass Stuart for today. Hope you enjoy your celebration.

So maybe your Halloween sucked. Maybe you spent all day dressing up to find that the one dude or dudette you planned on going home with was more into the sexy nun than you. Or maybe no one got the obscure comic book reference for your costume but members of the gender you were NOT trying to attract. Have no fear. Today brings a new day, and a new holiday to celebrate! El Dia de los Muertos. Day of the Dead.

Now besides being the title of a cult classic horror movie, Day of the Dead is also a holiday marking the day that departed souls are believed to return to earth. Celebrated on November 1st and 2nd, Dia de los Muertos might at first hit you as a pretty morbid affair. However, in Mexican culture, this is a delightful celebration filled with live music, food, colorful decorations, and family. Octavio Paz notes that a Mexican person generally reacts very differently to death than an American does, in fact he "chases after it, mocks it, courts it, hugs it, sleeps with it; it is his favorite plaything and his most lasting love." Instead of being trying to ignore death, Day of the Dead is a beautiful festival filled with lively rituals to honor ancestors and dead loved ones.

Day of the Dead evolved out of a combination of Aztec (and other Meso-American civilizations) and Roman Catholic practices and beliefs. Many pre-Hispanic peoples viewed life as a dream and believed that only in death did one become truly awake. Their celebration of death freaked out the Spanish Conquistadors, but they were unable to eradicate it. They did manage to move the holiday to coincide with All Saints’ Day and All Souls’ Day. While Day of the Dead is celebrated differently all over the Americas, all traditions share a sense of tremendous pride for the work that goes into honoring the dead.

For your Dia de los Muertos celebration, you are going to need a few things. Because the spirits of the dead who visit you will need sustenance for their journey back to the dead-people realm, you really should provide them with some of their favorite dishes and delicious goodies, plus it wouldn’t hurt to show them a good time with decorations, color, and flowers. Two common rituals that go into a Dia de los Muertos celebration are creating ofrendas, or altars, in your home or cemetery and visiting your loved ones’ burial plots.

In creating your altar, try to touch on the four main elements of nature – earth, wind, water, and fire. It is believed that souls are fed by the aroma of food, and the crops that go into making these dishes represent earth. Papel picados, colorful strings of tissue paper cutouts, represent wind. A glass of water to quench the soul’s thirst represents just that, water. And, candles (usually one per soul, with an extra one placed for any forgotten souls) represent fire. Altars are covered with the fragrant cempasĂșchil flower, or orange marigold, whose scent is used to guide the souls back. Moles (or thick sauces made from a variety of ingredients, including chilies, sesame seeds, herbs, spices, chocolate, and fruit), tamales, sweets like the edible sugar skulls (calaceritas de azĂșcar), pumpkin candy, and other traditional desserts decorate the altars. Non-spicy versions of adult dishes will even be found for children who have died, angelitos (or little angels). A unique Pan de Muerto, Day of the Dead bread, made with flour, butter, sugar, eggs, orange peel, anise, and yeast, is also set out. The bread is adorned with strips of dough that resembles bones, crosses, or teardrops. You’ll find all varieties of items, including skeletons, dolls, macabre toys, fruits, vegetables, incense (burnt copal), statues of saints, photos of the deceased, wreaths, crosses, even bottles of alcoholic mescal, beer, soda, and the traditional atole (a corn gruel, also known as the “original power bar” for its nourishing qualities). Ofrendas seem to be open to interpretation, and creativity is always celebrated!

The second ritual that is common to the Day of the Dead is visiting the graves of your ancestors. Now, I have to admit, I have no idea where most of my ancestors were buried as family plots aren’t so common any more, but there can’t be much harm in going to a cemetery and choosing one or two tombstones to (tastefully) decorate, right? Think of it as a random good deed for a deceased stranger. Traditionally, families will decorate the graves of loved ones with candles, marigolds, bottles of tequila, and altars. Family members will clean the graves, sing songs, set up hundreds of candles, reminisce about their loved ones, pray and reflect. Picnics are laid out, mariachi bands play, and sometimes even fireworks are involved! For the most part, however, it is a quiet and wondrous affair.

Besides the homemade sweets and steaming dishes, the Tim Burton-esque skeleton statues, and the colors and crafts, what delights me about the tradition of Dia de los Muertos is the fact that people are allowed to enjoy the inevitable. Let’s face it. The one thing we can count on for each of our futures is that we will die. Wouldn’t death just seem so much less frightening if you knew your friends would celebrate you once you’re gone? It’s an old-fashioned tradition for our modern American culture - honoring our ancestors – but to my thinking, it might just be something we want to reinstate. Get your friends together, head to your nearest bodega, and celebrate today as if it was your last! (Seriously. It might just be. And that’s ok.)

For Recipes and DIY Craft Instructions, check out these links:

Recipes:
Pan de Muerto
Calabaza en Tacha (Pumpkin Candy)
Fruit Atole
Candy Skulls
Mole Poblano
White Chocolate Mole

Crafts:
Day of the Dead Wire and Clay Sculpture
La Calavera Lino Cut Memory Cards
Easy Paper Flowers
Day of the Dead Sugar Skulls
Matchbook Shrines

Further Reading:
MexConnect – Day of the Dead Resource Page
Day of the Dead History
El Dia de Muertos
Traditions: The Altar
Day of the Dead Food
Day of the Dead in Mexico
Day of the Dead Glossary

Saturday, October 24, 2009

great shirt.

Sometimes I forget just how talented he is.

Sunday, September 27, 2009

French Car Commercials







via Lark About.

a short film: Hauschka-Morgenrot

Hauschka - Morgenrot from Jeff Desom on Vimeo.

Reminds me of my summer in Amsterdam.

The Cove



Sorry I've been away so long, my four loyal readers! September brings with it such a strange mix of excitement, activity, and frenzy, and I barely can believe that we are almost through. I'm still writing for Broke-Ass Stuart on the regular, so you can see my posts on Tuesdays, Saturdays, and Sundays. Here is today's: Travel Books Part 2.

Opening Act got off to a fantastic start last week. I'm teaching at Franklin K. Lane in Cypress Hills in addition to Graphic High School in Hell's Kitchen this year. The students were excited, threw themselves into all the weird and strange games and exercises we brought in for them. I adore teenagers. They get such a bad rap, but underneath their tough exterior, they are so desiring of love and to be listened to. I think this year will provide tons of interesting learning for both me and them.

And in preparation for my mom and dad's visit to Brooklyn, I've been finally getting those annoying boxes left over form our January move unpacked! Feels great to have a home. Petunia is blundering along, despite the growing tumor. She's happy and still eating and chillin with Carlo, Marrakech and I.

We've also decided on a name for the new organization that has come out of LYDIA.
ASMI International. "Asmi" means "I am" in Sanskrit, and it also stands for "Aid, Support, Mentor, Impart" which is the process our organization will go through to teach specific curriculum for Arts and Literacy to groups of refugees and displaced communities. With a focus on healing and then teaching others to teach our process, we are excited to start fundraising for our first 3-month trip to Liberia with The LYDIA Project.

Political Subversities, a political cabaret I write and perform in, has had 3 awesome shows at The People's Improv Theatre this month. The final showing of our most recent incarnation will be next Friday, October 2 at 8:00pm. If you haven't seen it, I'm pretty proud of the work we've done this time. Only $10, it's something not to miss!

BAPT (Big Apple Playback Theatre) Company has also been so much fun. I have been apprenticing with this theatre company and learning all about a form of improv called Playback for the past 6-months, and have now joined as a full-fledged member. My first show was at Hunter College for a group of Foster Care Case Managers on a mandatory work retreat they were on. Scary, exciting, fulfilling, and exhausting, I am so grateful for the opportunity to learn the type of audience interractive theatre that Playback is, and to work with such a unique, talented, and passionate group of people.

FINALLY, the point of this post. This last week, I saw a movie with Carlo that blew my mind, and that you all need to go see. "The Cove" is a action-packed, spy thriller documentary about the yearly systematic slaughter of 2300 dolphins in the small fishing town of Taiji, Japan. Informative, masterfully shot and edited, and something I was completely unaware of, I cannot encourage you to see this movie more. The official website for the film is here.